Sunday, 11th February, 2024
Gorgeously sunny and warm morning – just right for a birthday. Ironically, my friend Kevin in Leeds is flying to Alicante this morning from Manchester Airport which is enveloped in thick fog – so thick that you can’t see the planes on the runway. Let’s hope he takes off sometime today. If he gets there, the forecast is for a good week of sunshine. Should help with his persistent SAD syndrome side effects.
For me, totally grounded on the sunny South Coast, the process has well and truly begun. This is breakfast. I have to drink a litre of enema plus clear liquid. You know you’re jealous, Dear Reader. I’ve already tried to get my wife to drink it for me without success. I don’t know what happened to love, honour and obey but there is a distinct lack of it in our kitchen this morning.
The solution – a powder from a sachet diluted in 500 mls of tepid water – is supposed to be Mango flavour. That chemical mixture is about as far from a mango as Kevin currently is from Alicante. It’s horrible and it has to be followed by another 500 mls of a clear liquid and champagne is not allowed. My one meal of the day will be Beef Consommé …. Oh, what joy. Going to distract myself by going in the Gym – at least it’s close to the ‘Facilities’.
The second sachet – Fruit Punch flavour – is a 7.00 pm. Should be an interesting night. I’ve done my exercise routine of 90 mins in the Gym and now I have a cup of black tea to look forward to. Still, I requested this so this is what I will have to endure.
My wife says I am pushing it too hard in the Gym at the moment. When I come out, she says my lips have turned white as if all the blood has drained. I’ve always pushed things further than I should but, currently, I am trying to get my fitness back to my pre-cancer treatment level and it’s taking longer than I want. In the Gym, I’m watching yet another Cold War spy drama at the moment – Berlin Station. I have absolutely no idea why or where my taste for these comes from but I get absolutely hooked on them and the world of secrecy and mistrust.
Monday, 12th February, 2024
Up at 6.00 am after a difficult night. Outside it is clear but cold at 3C/37F. It is going to be a lovely, sunny day. Unfortunately, I am going to spend the morning in the Endoscopy section of the local hospital. This morning I have completed the Consent Form indicating that I won’t want sedation and on it I’ve recorded essential test stats that I did this morning over a cup of black tea.
My appointment is at 10.00 am but the warning is that it could be delayed by up to 4 hrs – a bit different to the one I paid for at the Nuffield a couple of years ago.
My friend, Kevin, who flew to Spain yesterday to avoid the snow and dark, winter days in Yorkshire finally got there 6 hours late after being delayed by dense fog that even the MEN referred to as highly unusual. He couldn’t have chosen a worse day to travel. I suspect quite a lot of alcohol was required to come down from that debacle. He will certainly be waking to a beautiful day even if he is in Benidorm.
What it must be to be 73! The thing about this colonoscopy is that it means facing one’s longevity starkly. As we all slip down the diurnal slide towards the inevitable, we all fight it in different ways. I just hope I will be able to complete my exercise routine this afternoon. I’m feeling so deliciously empty after a 24 hr fast that I don’t want to break the spell now. Can I go through the rest of my life without solid food? Perhaps not.
My visit to the hospital this morning was the most humbling and life affirming experience it is possible to have. I was in and out within an hour in which time I met the most wonderful people it is possible to know. The lady inserting the camera was a Grecophile who was reading Victoria Hislop’s latest novel set in Thessaloniki – The Thread. I didn’t bother with any sedation or air and gas. We just talked non-stop and watched the most wonderful pictures on the huge flat screen. I didn’t realise how beautiful I was on the inside.
Anyway, the result is that I am cancer-free although I have a sign of moderate diverticula. It is normal for my age. I don’t have to follow this up although I will. I will book a repeat in three years. I cannot get over the most wonderful people I have met in the last 24 hrs. I am going back tomorrow to take them a huge box of chocolates and a big thank-you card. It is the least I can do.
We left the hospital and went to Waitrose for a snack lunch – Italian meats and cheeses. Drove home via the coast road where lots of parents and children were walking / running in the Half Term sunshine.
At home, in delicious sunshine with the patio doors open, we ate our lunch with a bottle of champagne. I now have to settle down to an afternoon of exercise and a few months of work and dieting. Looking forward to surprising my friends in the North with visits they don’t expect.
Tuesday, 13th February, 2024
Walking on air this morning. Wishing everybody Happy everything even if they don’t deserve it. I am being reintroduced to my regime of anticoagulation slowly. I’ve no idea why because I wasn’t really cut yesterday. However, I am having to have twice daily injections of a substance called Fragmin. They are administered morning and night by my live-in nurse.
I have to have 20 of these along with my warfarin tablets. They don’t hurt but they sting a bit and who wants that at Breakfast time? So, I might not go through the full course. We’ll see. Even so, each injection is administered by a single-dose syringe which is then put into a plastic container which is, ultimately, collected by the Local Authority Hazardous Waste team. What a palaver!
The real joy of yesterday – other than being pronounced cancer-free – was meeting the people. They were absolutely delightful and they were all girls … well, women. Each one was kind, chatty, friendly but utterly professional from the girl checking me in to the team doing the procedure and then to the women in Recovery. I met a consultant who, like me, was a Grecophile, a lovely, young, American girl who lived in a house-share in Brighton with a houseful of medic lads. She was addicted to travelling which was why we talked so much. Wonderful to talk to someone young and full of ambition.
So, this morning, I have written them a letter of gratitude for yesterday’s experience and gone out to buy them some chocolates. I thought they could share them around. Going in this afternoon to leave them at Reception for them. I’m also writing a letter of Thanks to my GP, Martina, who was asked two years ago to get me on the list for a repeat colonoscopy for February 2024. On February 1st, I was phone and invited in. I couldn’t ask for better service. I love them. Today, I love everybody!
Wednesday, 14th February, 2024
Happy Valentine’s Day, Dear Reader. If only. It is grey, wet and uninviting outside. No Valentine’s for me. Too old! Depressing, isn’t it. Come to think of it, I’ve hardly ever had a Valentine’s card. It’s supposed to be anonymous isn’t it? Ah well. Life goes on.
Had a nice, long chat with JohnR yesterday. He is so content up in North Yorkshire. Kevin’s really enjoying his week in Spain. What am I doing? Got to get back to the fun of life. But first, I’ve got to get back to my best fitness and weight level. Can’t believe how much the travails of last year have knocked me back. So, going to spend an afternoon in the Gym. I’ll even get wet just walking across the garden to there.
Our car is exactly one year old today. This day last year was gorgeously sunny when we went round to Honda to collect it. What a contrast. We have driven just 5,250 miles in it this year although we did spend a bit of time away and driving rented cars. It is proving an enjoyable car to drive and the next one will be a plug-in hybrid.
I never watch the scatter’d fire
De Profundis – Christina Rossetti
Of stars, or sun’s far-trailing train,
But all my heart is one desire,
And all in vain:
It is 5.30 pm. Outside is dark, wet and depressing … still. I’ve done two hours in the Gym and I’m feeling shaky. Need to eat. Chef is making Cassoulet for supper. Looking forward to that. Hope tomorrow is a better day on every level. I’m really going to have to start being more proactive and not just let things happen to me. I need to make my own weather.
Thursday, 15th February, 2024
The rain has stopped. Breakfast is just liquid at the moment – a glass of two, freshly squeezed oranges, a large cup of Yorkshire tea and a large cup of freshly ground coffee. I’m currently really enjoying this Morning Ritual coffee bean pack. It makes the claim that it has notes of citrus, floral & caramel. I’m not sure about that but it is No.3 which is mild and not over roasted. My machine instantly draws beans from its hopper and grinds exactly the right amount at the coarseness I choose for a large cup of coffee. I drink it with frothed, skimmed milk.
Of course, currently, my Breakfast is interrupted by having a syringe stuck in my belly. I don’t feel the injection but the substance, Dalteparin Sodium, stings like a bee sting for a while. You wouldn’t choose that first thing in the morning.
Anyway, the sun is coming out and a new day of dieting, exercising and writing is opening up. The temperature is forecast to reach a balmy 16C/61F. We are still alive which is more than can be said for this lad. He was a world renowned Professor of Medical Science. I went to Burton upon Trent Grammar School in 1962. Adam Sillitoe was in the Upper Sixth as I arrived.
He died this week after suffering Bladder Cancer with which he was diagnosed at the age of 71. Like all intelligent people. he had a wide span of interests. He is pictured here at a Bridget Riley exhibition. He was a professor of Ophthalmology and he believed Riley’s art, which has disorientating optical effects – offers a window on how visual perception works and how what we “see” can be framed by the brain’s expectations.
We live in Littlehampton which is/was the site of the Body Shop‘s Head Office. Started in 1976 by Anita Roddick, so many girls of my generation were addicted to it for a while. But, those Boomers aged and moved on and Gen.Z have different priorities. Born in Littlehampton to Italian immigrant parents, Anita Roddick died in 2007 at the age of just 64 . Body Shop was sold. This week, it went into administration. We all have our time, fade and die don’t we Dear Reader?
The gorgeous, Spring weather enticed me out to the Garden Centre. It was all set out in anticipation of the Spring gardening season.
I was looking for seeds to sow – something brash and gaudy to brighten up the street. This year, I am going to grow my own in the cold frame rather than splash out on plants. It will need around 100 + plants so this will be much more cost effective and keep me in activity.
Friday, 16th February, 2024
Lovely day after a late night and a very early morning. Finished with politics just before midnight and started again with politics at 4.30 am. The Labour Party has destroyed the Tories in two historic by-elections with the biggest swing since the end of WW2. There are worse things to hear at that time and I got up with a spring in my step.
I contacted a few friends to share my joy and most felt the same. Politics is too much for some. They’d rather get their hair done but, for me, it is the stuff of life. Certainly, the Tories are doomed and the only question is, will the next election be an existential occasion for the Conservative party and how few seats will they win. Watched a bit of the England v India Test Match and we are doing so much better than expected.
It is my turn to cook again today so I am reprising the triumph I had a few weeks ago. I am cooking Boeuf Bourguignon and had to make sure I had all the ingredients. With 2kgs of skirt beef and a bottle of red wine, this dish will make three meals for two people on diets.
The day is so warm and sunny, we have to keep reminding ourselves that it is only mid-February. The birds, the flower bulbs and the shooting shrubs ought to be reminded as well because they are doing a great impression of mid March.
Saturday, 17th February, 2024
It’s raining again. That soft, fine, insistently soaking rain. We really do have to get rid of this government and change the weather. Ten years ago today, I was just 62, we were living in our duplex apartment at The Pinnacles in Surrey and we were enjoying warm, Spring sunshine as we prepared for our 15th drive to Greece.
Do you remember, Dear Reader, what you were doing a decade ago today, how young you were, how vigorous and optimistic? Remembering, reviewing can be quite scary. These times are only redeemable in the memory. I will never be 62 again.
On the upside and as a person who loves technology, it is so much better, easier, more available than it was back then. We had to work hard to get the Greek language. I was much better at reading it – at my own pace – than I was at speaking it and listening to it at a Greek’s pace. Our new smart phones will be on their way soon and they pack such facilities that we couldn’t even dream of 10 years ago.
Already, we can use Google Translate to do just that with static text and even be given audio hints on pronunciation. Now, our new phones include an AI-driven app which translates in real time so we will be able to talk to someone who speaks a foreign language and see/hear it translated as we do. Never again will we have to rely on shouting louder to make ourselves understood. Quite amazing, wonderful, exciting. I don’t know if it translates American or Lancashire but one day ….
Can you believe that it was just 3 years ago that we were being invited to have our first Covid vaccination. It was quite a momentous week for me. And yet, and yet it all seems so long ago, a major time-shift ago.